Couples Photo Session Guide
Couples Photo Session Guide
Meet Your Photographer
Meet Your Photographer
Hi, I'm Ashley!
Hi, I'm Ashley!
I’m thrilled you’ve considered me to be your photographer!
Allow me to give you a glimpse of what you can expect from this experience. I’ve created this guide to help you get the most out of your experience with me, and by the time you’ve read through it, I hope you’ll have all your questions answered and feel excited and prepared.
I’ll cover everything from wardrobe suggestions, how to prepare kiddos, FAQs. and everything in between! Then, I’ll take care of the rest. Your only job is to be yourself, laugh a lot and let me create beautiful photos of you and your family you’ll love forever. I am excited to get to know you!
I’m thrilled you’ve considered me to be your photographer!
Allow me to give you a glimpse of what you can expect from this experience. I’ve created this guide to help you get the most out of your experience with me, and by the time you’ve read through it, I hope you’ll have all your questions answered and feel excited and prepared.
I’ll cover everything from wardrobe suggestions, how to prepare kiddos, FAQs. and everything in between! Then, I’ll take care of the rest. Your only job is to be yourself, laugh a lot and let me create beautiful photos of you and your family you’ll love forever. I am excited to get to know you!



Time & Location
Time & Location
Time
Time
Typically, the best light for your photos will occur during “golden
hour,” which is the hour immediately before sunset or right after
sunrise, when the sun is close to the horizon and casts soft, rich
light on the earth.
To establish a start time for your photo shoot, look up the sunset
time for our shoot date (and city) and subtract an hour. That’s
usually the best time for us to start, but we’ll be sure to confirm
the exact time together!
Remember, the sun sets much earlier during winter and much
later during summer, so make sure to factor that in when
choosing your portrait session date, especially if you’re taking off
work or have evening plans afterward.
Typically, the best light for your photos will occur during “golden
hour,” which is the hour immediately before sunset or right after
sunrise, when the sun is close to the horizon and casts soft, rich
light on the earth.
To establish a start time for your photo shoot, look up the sunset
time for our shoot date (and city) and subtract an hour. That’s
usually the best time for us to start, but we’ll be sure to confirm
the exact time together!
Remember, the sun sets much earlier during winter and much
later during summer, so make sure to factor that in when
choosing your portrait session date, especially if you’re taking off
work or have evening plans afterward.
Location
Location
Unless you booked a predetermined location, the location of
your session is completely up to you! Consider the atmosphere
and vibe you want to convey in your images, and if you prefer
something indoors (like your home), outside in nature, or
something more urban.
And don’t be afraid to think outside the box or limit yourself to
my locations. I encourage you to brainstorm unique locations
that you might have special access to that most people don’t.
Maybe you, or someone in your personal or professional network,
can secure permission to a location that would otherwise be off-
limits, like a beautiful private estate or industrial space. Maybe
it’s a flower farm, upscale hotel, airplane hangar or rooftop view.
The sky is literally the limit!
If you are unsure of the perfect location, don’t worry- I’ve got you
covered. I have included a list of my top (4) favorite locations to
photograph couples sessions with a link to more location ideas.
Please let me know if you are interested in any of these or if
you’d like to talk about different locations.
Unless you booked a predetermined location, the location of your session is completely up to you! Consider the atmosphere and vibe you want to convey in your images, and if you prefer something indoors (like your home), outside in nature, or something more urban.
And don’t be afraid to think outside the box or limit yourself to my locations. I encourage you to brainstorm unique locations that you might have special access to that most people don’t. Maybe you, or someone in your personal or professional network, can secure permission to a location that would otherwise be off- limits, like a beautiful private estate or industrial space. Maybe it’s a flower farm, upscale hotel, airplane hangar or rooftop view. The sky is literally the limit!
If you are unsure of the perfect location, don’t worry- I’ve got you covered. I have included a list of my top (4) favorite locations to photograph family sessions with a link to more location ideas.
Please let me know if you are interested in any of these or if you’d like to talk about different locations.
Color Palettes & Styling
Color Palettes & Styling


Couple photos are a moment to shine and show off your
your best versions of yourselves! Take this
time to be inspired and really pull together outfits that makes
you look great as a couple and as individuals.
Here are a few pages of styles, suggestions and moodboards
along with color palettes I’ve pulled together. You’re welcome
to choose from one of these options, or use them as
inspiration to make your own.
Family photos are a moment to shine and show off your beautiful family in your best versions of yourselves! Take this time to be inspired and really pull together outfits that makes you all look great as a group, and as individuals.
Here are a few pages of styles, suggestions and moodboards along with color palettes I’ve pulled together. You’re welcome to choose from one of these options, or use them as inspiration to make your own.
Style Tips for Her
Style Tips for Her
Don't Be Afraid to Dress it Up!
Don't Be Afraid to Dress it Up!
Have you ever dreamed about rocking a romantic gown, tulle skirt,
or flower crown, but just never had an occasion for it? This is your
chance to do it up! Remember: there is no such thing as “too
dressed up” when it comes to your session, so don’t be afraid to
have some fun!
Dresses and skirts look most stunning because they really flattering
on most female bodies, especially on camera. What’s better than a
full and flowy skirt?! It’s like a built-in "prop,
" giving you something
to twirl and swirl, and adding effortless movement and interest to
your photos. A dress always looks nice, so definitely my
recommendation. Don’t be afraid to choose something like jeans or
jumpsuits though, especially if that’s the type of look you’re going
for. I also strongly recommend choosing your outfit first, and
choosing everyone else’s around yours.
Have you ever dreamed about rocking a romantic gown, tulle skirt, or flower crown, but just never had an occasion for it? This is your
chance to do it up! Remember: there is no such thing as “too dressed up” when it comes to your session, so don’t be afraid to have some fun!
Dresses and skirts look most stunning because they really flattering on most female bodies, especially on camera. What’s better than a full and flowy skirt?! It’s like a built-in "prop," giving you something to twirl and swirl, and adding effortless movement and interest to your photos. A dress always looks nice, so definitely my recommendation. Don’t be afraid to choose something like jeans or jumpsuits though, especially if that’s the type of look you’re going for. I also strongly recommend choosing your outfit first, and choosing everyone else’s around yours.
Accessories, Hair & Makeup
Accessories, Hair & Makeup
Jewelry such as necklaces, bracelets, earrings, etc. can add such a
huge difference in really elevating your photos. Accessorize to add
character but don’t go too over the top (think about a statement
necklace or earrings, but probably not both) It adds an extra bit of
luxury and appeal to your images and really pulls together your
look.
Consider having your hair and makeup professionally done for the
session. This will enhance your natural features and make you feel
camera-ready. If you prefer to do your own hair and makeup, aim
for a natural, polished look. Keeping your eyes nice and bright. Try
to avoid any false lashes, in camera they typically take away from
your eyes and cause shadows. Avoid trying out new hairstyles or
makeup techniques on the day of your session, better to try
something new a few days before to make sure you’re
accomplishing the look you’re going for.
Jewelry such as necklaces, bracelets, earrings, etc. can add such a huge difference in really elevating your photos. Accessorize to add character but don’t go too over the top (think about a statement necklace or earrings, but probably not both) It adds an extra bit of luxury and appeal to your images and really pulls together your look.
Consider having your hair and makeup professionally done for the session. This will enhance your natural features and make you feel camera-ready. If you prefer to do your own hair and makeup, aim for a natural, polished look. Keeping your eyes nice and bright. Try to avoid any false lashes, in camera they typically take away from
your eyes and cause shadows. Avoid trying out new hairstyles or makeup techniques on the day of your session, better to try
something new a few days before to make sure you’re accomplishing the look you’re going for.
Style Tips for Him
Style Tips for Him
The Best Fit
The Best Fit
Long, fitted pants and closed-toed shoes is always my
recommendation for Men. Fitted dress pants or fitted solid-colored
pants work best on camera. Patterns like pinstripes, plaid, or small
busy patterns tend to take away from the subject, and can also look
odd on camera, and create a Moire effect so I’d recommend
avoiding them. I also recommend staying away from graphic t-
shirts and large logos.
Long, fitted pants and closed-toed shoes is always my recommendation for Men. Fitted dress pants or fitted solid-colored pants work best on camera. Patterns like pinstripes, plaid, or small busy patterns tend to take away from the subject, and can also look odd on camera, and create a Moire effect so I’d recommend avoiding them. I also recommend staying away from graphic t-shirts and large logos.
Layered Looks & Details
Layered Looks & Details
Layers on men look great on camera. Even if it feels overdressed,
adding another layer will bring extra dimension and visual interest
to your photos. Don’t be afraid to get a little creative with layers, to
break up the color tones. Throw over a nice jacket, or add a long-
sleeved collared shirt and tie underneath a sweater, weather
permitting, of course.
Details for men are SO important too! Make sure to wear your best
watch to really elevate your look.
Layers on men look great on camera. Even if it feels overdressed, adding another layer will bring extra dimension and visual interest
to your photos. Don’t be afraid to get a little creative with layers, to break up the color tones. Throw over a nice jacket, or add a long-sleeved collared shirt and tie underneath a sweater, weather permitting, of course.
Details for men are SO important too! Make sure to wear your best watch to really elevate your look.
If Casual is His Thing
If Casual is His Thing
Some men don’t like the dressed up look, or maybe you’re planning
a more casual shoot. A nice, clean pair of jeans and a neutral
colored shirt will work great! Keep it simple, in the end he wants to
feel comfortable in what he’s wearing, so that’s most important.
Some men don’t like the dressed up look, or maybe you’re planning a more casual shoot. A nice, clean pair of jeans and a neutral
colored shirt will work great! Keep it simple, in the end he wants to feel comfortable in what he’s wearing, so that’s most important.
Grooming Tips
Grooming Tips
Get a fresh haircut a day or two before your session to keep your cut
looking fresh and cleaned up. Trim your facial hair neatly or shave if
you prefer a cleaner look. Ensure your nails are clean and well-
groomed, as they’ll be visible in some shots. If you wear glasses,
decide whether you want to wear them or go without, considering
any glares or reflections.
Get a fresh haircut a day or two before your session to keep your cut looking fresh and cleaned up. Trim your facial hair neatly or shave if you prefer a cleaner look. Ensure your nails are clean and well-groomed, as they’ll be visible in some shots. If you wear glasses, decide whether you want to wear them or go without, considering any glares or reflections.
My #1 Principle for Couples and Their Photo Session is "Coordinating, not Matching."
My #1 Principle for Couples and Their Photo Session is "Coordinating, not Matching."
Keep Location in Mind
Keep Location in Mind
Another helpful item to consider when trying to decide what to wear
in your couples photos is the location of your photoshoot. Are you going
to be in the desert where there are plenty of neutral tones or under a
tree at a park surrounded by bright fall foliage? Select a color palette
for your outfits that will compliment the setting. Pick out items of
clothing in colors that will compliment the background, and not
compete with it, or blend in too much.
Another helpful item to consider when trying to decide what to wear in your couples photos is the location of your photoshoot. Are you going to be in the desert where there are plenty of neutral tones or under a
tree at a park surrounded by bright fall foliage? Select a color palette for your outfits that will compliment the setting. Pick out items of clothing in colors that will compliment the background, and not
compete with it, or blend in too much.
Start With 3 Core Colors
Start With 3 Core Colors
Knowing what colors to wear for couples photos can be tricky. Before
you go unloading your closet, you can simplify this
process with a plan. You can accomplish a cohesive look without
wearing the same outfit. The base colors will be the basics
that will make up the core pieces of your wardrobe.
Knowing what colors to wear for couples photos can be tricky. Before you go unloading your closet, you can simplify this
process with a plan. You can accomplish a cohesive look without wearing the same outfit. The base colors will be the basics
that will make up the core pieces of your wardrobe.
White
White
Ivory
Ivory
Beige
Beige
Camel
Camel
Rich Brown
Rich Brown
Brown
Brown
Tan
Tan
Taupe
Taupe
Light Gray
Light
Gray
Gray
Gray
Black
Black
Denim
Denim
Add in 1-3 Accent Colors
Add in 1-3 Accent Colors
If you want to add a bit of variety, or if you can't find a complete outfit from your 2-3 core colors, add in a couple of accent colors, to be used less frequently than the core colors.
These colors should complement the neutrals and nearly-neutrals that you're already using. Feel free to use other colors that aren't on this list. These are just colors that are often incorporated and will compliment just about any of the neutrals above.
If you want to add a bit of variety, or if you can't find a complete outfit from
your 2-3 core colors, add in a couple of accent colors, to be used less frequently than the core colors. These colors should complement the neutrals and nearly-neutrals that you're already using. Fell free to use other colors that aren't on this list. These are just colors that are often incorporated and will compliment just about any of the neutrals above.
Dusty
Blue
Dusty
Blue
Mustard
Mustard
Dusty
Green
Dusty
Green
Olive
Olive
Dusty Pink
Dusty Pink
Rust
Rust
Emerald
Emerald
Use These Sample Palettes to Visualize Wardrobe Options for Your Family.
Use These Sample Palettes to Visualize Wardrobe Options for Your Family.
Core
Core
Core
Core
Accent
Accent
Accent
Accent
Accent
Accent
Core
Core
Core
Core
Accent
Accent
Accent
Accent
Accent
Accent
Core
Core
Core
Core
Core
Core
Accent
Accent
Accent
Accent
Accent
Accent
Don't be Afraid to Incorporate Some Patterns Into Your Wardrobe Too.
Don't be Afraid to Incorporate Some Patterns Into Your Wardrobe Too.
Start with solid colors and subtle textures as the foundation of your wardrobe. To add interest, incorporate a patterned piece—like a floral dress, a fun skirt, or a textured jacket. Just be sure to balance patterns with neutral solids to keep the overall look cohesive and timeless. A few favorite combos: a flowy floral dress for her, neutral tones for him, and cozy textures like knits or linen for a natural, earthy vibe
When choosing your outfits, start with solid colors and pieces that have some nice texture—think knits, linen, denim, or soft cotton. To add visual interest, one of you can incorporate a subtle pattern, like a floral dress or a plaid button-up. Just be sure to balance patterns with solid neutrals to keep the overall look cohesive and not too busy. A great combo might be a flowy printed dress paired with your partner in earthy tones and a textured sweater or jacket. Aim for outfits that feel like you and complement each other without perfectly matching—for a look that's natural, comfortable, and effortlessly stylish.
Want to Simplify Your Outfit Even More?
Go All Neutral.
Want to Simplify Your Outfit Even More?
Go All Neutral.
Does picking a palette sound like too much? You can hit the easy
button and still let each other shine by going all-neutral all the way.
Especially if you’re going for a boho look! Start with white, cream,
tan or beige for most of the pieces, then mix in a couple nice colors
like olive green or khaki pants and finish it off with a couple hits of
visual interest with textures. Some I love are lace, corduroy, knits,
satin, linen, and waffle cloth.
Does picking a palette sound like too much? You can hit the easy button and still let each other shine by going all-neutral all the way. Especially if you’re going for a boho look! Start with white, cream, tan or beige for most of the pieces, then mix in a couple nice colors like olive green or khaki pants and finish it off with a couple hits of visual interest with textures. Some I love are lace, corduroy, knits, satin, linen, and waffle cloth.
Feel Free to Get Creative With It & Make It Fun! These Are Your Couple Photos After All!
Feel Free to Get Creative With It & Make It Fun! These Are Your Couple Photos After All!
Moodboards
Moodboards


Clean & Simple
Clean & Simple
Core
Core
Core
Core
Accent
Accent
This one is a perfect example of
incorporating textures and simple
patterns! And the whites really add a clean
and polished feel. Everyone here is
wearing mainly the same colors, but with
variety in textures in Mom’s and Son’s
choices, it all works together.
This one is a perfect example of incorporating textures and simple patterns! And the whites really add a clean and polished feel. Everyone here is wearing mainly the same colors, but with the variety in textures in Mom’s and Son’s choices, it all works together.
This one is a perfect example of
incorporating textures and simple
patterns! And the whites really add a clean
and polished feel. Everyone here is
wearing mainly the same colors, but with
variety in textures in Mom’s and Son’s
choices, it all works together.
Classic Boho
Classic Boho
Core
Core
Core
Core
Core
Core
Accent
Accent
Accent
Accent
The boho neutral look has become a
classic, go-to look in family photos and is
always a good choice. Neutrals like these
whites, creams, taupe and brown bring
out your beautiful skin tones. There is a
level of casualness to it, but the girl’s
dresses bring a touch of fancy!
The boho neutral look has become a classic, go-to look in family photos and is always a good choice. Neutrals like these whites, creams, taupe and brown bring out your beautiful skin tones. There is a level of casualness to it, but the girl’s dresses bring a touch of fancy!
The boho neutral look has become a
classic, go-to look in family photos and is
always a good choice. Neutrals like these
whites, creams, taupe and brown bring
out your beautiful skin tones. There is a
level of casualness to it, but the girl’s
dresses bring a touch of fancy!




Poppy & Fun
Poppy & Fun
Poppy & Fun
Core
Core
Core
Core
Accent
Accent
Accent
Accent
Accent
Accent
This one is a perfect example of choosing
simple core colors and pulling in accent
colors to really make a fun color palette
with several pops of color that doesn’t
always have to be all neutral and simple.
We can make your family photos fun and
colorful too!
This one is a perfect example of choosing simple core colors and pulling in accent colors to really make a fun color palette with several pops of color that doesn’t always have to be all neutral and simple. We can make your family photos fun and colorful too!
This one is a perfect example of choosing
simple core colors and pulling in accent
colors to really make a fun color palette
with several pops of color that doesn’t
always have to be all neutral and simple.
We can make your family photos fun and
colorful too!
Frequently Asked Questions
Frequently Asked Questions
Pre-Session Checklist
Pre-Session Checklist
Set date, time and location with Copper and Coal Photos
Choose package and pay retainer
Review guide for style and preparation tips
Look at options in client closet if applicable
Select everyone’s outfit
Schedule hair and makeup appointments (if desired)
Pay Remaining Balance with Copper and Coal Photos
Set date, time and location with Copper and Coal Photos
Choose package and pay retainer
Review guide for style and preparation tips
Look at options in client closet if applicable
Select everyone’s outfit
Schedule hair and makeup appointments (if desired)
Pay Remaining Balance with Copper and Coal Photos
Session Day
Session Day
We will meet at the pre-determined time/location. You should arrive ready in your first outfit. Pack a bag with:
Flats or flip flops for walking to photo spots if your choosing to
wear heeled shoes
Touch-up makeup and towels or tissue to dab sweat if desired
Embrace movement and interaction: Don't be afraid to be playful, laugh, and focus on each other rather than perfect poses.
Connect physically: Hold hands, hug, and get close to each other.
We will meet at the pre-determined time/location. You should arrive ready in your first outfit. Pack a bag with:
Flats or flip flops for walking to photo spots if your choosing to
wear heeled shoes
Touch-up makeup and towels or tissue to dab sweat if desired
Embrace movement and interaction: Don't be afraid to be playful, laugh, and focus on each other rather than perfect poses.
Connect physically: Hold hands, hug, and get close to each other.
Album Delivery
Album Delivery
I will email you an invitation to view and download your photo gallery
within 3-4 calendar weeks after your session.
I will email you an invitation to view and download your photo gallery within 3-4 calendar weeks after your session.
Thank You!
Thank You!
Thank you for your attention and consideration to this guide. I know
that all of this is a lot to think about. I created this guide to help
make your experience something you look back on for years to come.
At the end of the day, the location you choose and the outfits you
select won’t matter nearly as much as the memories you make
together. Your future memories are the most important thing to me,
and I want your session to be a time for you to just be yourselves and
enjoy.
Thank you for your attention and consideration of this guide. I know that all of this is a lot to think about. I created this guide to help make your experience something you look back on for years to come. At the end of the day, the location you choose and the outfits you select won’t matter nearly as much as the memories you make together. Your future memories are the most important thing to me, and I want your session to be a time for you to just be yourselves and enjoy.